How to Choose the Right Wedding Date?

It's not easy to organise a wedding. It may be even more difficult to decide on a date for the wedding.

If you're having trouble settling on a suitable wedding date, let us help you out. To guide  you narrow down your selections and discover the perfect time for you and your guests to celebrate love together, we have developed a list of ideas.

When Is the Soonest Possible Time to Schedule a Wedding?

Each couple will have their own unique way of determining when to be married, but one good place to start is by thinking about how much time you'll need to arrange your amazing wedding.

Most couples would benefit from having at least a year to organise their wedding.

Finding and ordering your wedding dress can take 9 to 11 months, so setting your wedding date at least a year in advance will give you plenty of time to plan (some are booked a year in advance).

Having said that, before committing to a certain date (or making your save-the-dates), it's a good idea to discover your desired location and see what days they have available.

Alternately, if you tend to worry excessively over major projects, a wedding in the far future may be a source of stress. Your engagement may need to be cut short because of this.

You can't give a bad response in this case.

It will be a mad dash to the finish line if you set your wedding date six months after the engagement, but you'll find a way, and some individuals actually thrive under pressure.

The Best Ways to Determine Your Wedding Date

Inquire With VIPs

Every couple has those people they simply must have at the wedding.

Before settling on a wedding date, make sure that all of the important people in your life (parents, close friends, etc.) are able to attend.

Talking about invitees, but only the A-list, must-have-them kind: If your options are restricted, you might want to enquire with close friends and family about potential date conflicts.

Asking anyone besides your closest family and friends (parents, siblings, and honour guards) is a dangerous game of chicken. Keeping things straightforward and firm on the agreed upon date is really appreciated.

Communicate With Your Suppliers

Perhaps there is a photographer whose work you have admired for a long time, or the band who performed at your cousin's wedding was the greatest you've ever heard.

Be sure to confirm the availability of any vital service providers for your wedding day before setting a firm date.

Try Not to Plan Your Wedding Around Major Conventions or Sporting Events

If many of your wedding guests are coming from out of town, they may have trouble finding hotels if your big day falls on the same weekend as a major city-wide event.

In the aftermath of a pandemic, it's important to keep an eye on major events like marathons, concerts, and festivals, and even football games in some college towns.

Though reserving a block of rooms for guests in advance can help alleviate some of this stress, street closures and traffic still pose a potential disruption to your wedding weekend plans.

Think About Other Weddings That May Have Some of the Same Guests

If another wedding with a similar guest list (a sorority sister's, a sibling's, or a cousin's) will be taking place the same year as yours, make sure the two festivities are far enough apart — especially if they will be taking place in different cities.

Give yourself at least three to four weeks in between gatherings, and maybe even more if you're inviting a large group.

They may not mind moving from state to state if the majority of them are young and avid tourists, but be sure to build in some downtime between nuptials if that's the case.

As a result, visitors may pick one location over the other unless some changes are made.

Weddings at Exotic Locations Require More Planning

Be aware of local weather patterns, plan accordingly for hurricane seasons, and try to avoid travelling during busy times like spring break to save money on lodging and transportation.

Guests appreciate being given plenty of time (nine months to a year) to prepare financially, especially if the event necessitates international travel.

Consider the Significance of Any Dates to You

It would be really romantic to tie the knot on the day you first met, the day you became an official couple, or your grandparents' wedding anniversary.

For example, Japanese households may consult the komi, an ancient astrological calendar, to determine the most propitious date for important events.

It's possible that you won't be able to get married on the precise day you'd like—perhaps because it falls on a Monday or because the venue you really want is already booked—but it's also possible that you'll be able to get very close.

An excellent piece of advice is to include information in your ceremony booklets informing attendees of any telltale symptoms of the timing.

Your Choice of Any Season

The style, location, and even the mood of your wedding can all be affected by the weather.

Think about the kind of wedding you want, and then pick a season. Have a hankering for cocktails with a tropical twist and a shady patio to enjoy them in? Keep the ceremony in the summertime.

Wishing for the finer things in life, for snow and festive cheer? Having your wedding in the winter is an option.

If you're into bright colours, memories, and mulled apple cider, a fall wedding is for you, but if you're more into pastels, fresh flowers, and a daffodil bouquet, a spring wedding might be more your speed.

You Can Ignore Some Dates

You shouldn't plan your wedding around certain dates.

If either of you is a tax accountant or lawyer, you probably shouldn't get married the weekend before April 15th.

Don't get married during your career's busiest period. Either you'll be too busy or too stressed to enjoy your honeymoon.

In addition, there may be specific times of year or even specific days of the week that are forbidden by your religion.

A Few More Questions About Setting the Big Day

In What Month Do You Get the Most Bang for Your Buck?

Choosing the right wedding date may depend heavily on your financial resources.
June, September, and October are prime wedding months, thus those months will have higher prices.

You'll be competing against many other couples for the best wedding venue and service providers.

As a result of the Valentine's Day and Christmas celebrations, the months of February and December are also exceptionally busy for weddings.

A wedding might be expensive, but if you plan it for an off-month, you can save money and have more options for the ceremony and reception.

In general, March, April, and November are the most cost-effective times to tie the knot.

Weddings on Saturday nights cost the most, but if you tie the knot during the week, the world is yours (venues may even bid against each other to get your business).

When Do Most Couples Choose to Have Their Weddings?

Saturdays from May through October are often the busiest months, but this might vary depending on the area. Couples who are concerned about the weather should postpone any outdoor ceremonies planned for the end of July or early August.

In recent years, October has been the most popular month for weddings, but early November is quickly catching up.

In 2021 and 2022, marriages delayed because of the coronavirus epidemic will make peak dates even more coveted than they already are. You can avoid disappointment by being flexible with the wedding date or by booking your venue as soon as possible.

Is There a Time of Year When Weddings Are Rarely Held?

Less weddings take place in the cooler months, from late November to January, but that doesn't mean they are any less romantic.

Is It Worth It to Plan a Wedding Around the Holidays?

You two sound like the holiday wedding type if you've always dreamed of having a Christmas tree at your nuptials or if you like a wedding cake decorated with hearts.

Some holidays coincide with three-day weekends, which could facilitate the presence of out-of-town guests.

You should also think about the fact that some guests might not appreciate having their holiday weekends interrupted by your wedding.

When Planning a Wedding, What Holidays Should Be Avoided?

It's advisable to avoid family-oriented holidays like Christmas and Thanksgiving if you're planning on inviting a large number of people from far away.

That is a popular time for visitors to be away from work and with friends or family.

Which Holidays Are Acceptable for a Wedding?

Famous for good reason, New Year's Eve lends itself to a joyful mood, and what could be more joyous than synchronising the start of your married life with the start of a new year?

Should We Expect Higher or Lower Costs Depending on the Wedding Date?

The date of your wedding might have a significant effect on the overall budget. It's common for venues (and some vendors, especially caterers) to offer drastically discounted rates during the months with lesser demand.

In the same vein, weddings held on weekdays, as well as on Fridays and Sundays, tend to cost less than those held on Saturdays.

Season and holidays, including Mother's Day and Valentine's Day, can also have an effect on the price and availability of flowers.

When Is It Best to Tie the Knot for Good Fortune?

Choose a lucky date for your wedding if you're a little superstitious or if you want to pay tribute to your religious or cultural heritage.

We understand.

Making ensuring the stars shine on your big day is quite acceptable.

According to Jewish custom, Tuesdays are the most auspicious day for weddings.

On Wednesdays, according to the Torah, God blesses His people. Tuesday, then, is a great day for Jews and anyone who desire to celebrate their heritage to do so.

You think you could be a wee bit Irish? Then have your wedding on New Year's Eve, December 31. The Irish have good fortune on this date. Besides, a new year is the perfect time to start a new chapter in life with a new partner.

Dates ending in eight or nine are considered lucky in Chinese culture. Eight sounds like the word for wealth, and nine sounds like the word for durability. Even though the date of the Chinese New Year shifts every year based on a complicated computation of lunar occurrences, it is nonetheless a very fortunate time.

Options for Choosing a Wedding Date

Sentimental Value

You can use the wedding date of your grandparents or parents, the date you two first met, the date you started dating, or the date you proposed.

Milestone Marker

The day that would represent the beginning of your fifth, tenth, fifteenth, etc. year as a couple.

Forget-Me-Not

A memorable string of numbers, such as 5/5 or 11/12.

Bon Voyage

Best time of year to visit your honeymoon spot.

Ideal Weather

When is the best time of year to have an outdoor wedding, such as a garden ceremony or an open-air reception?

Family Availability

When would be most convenient for those closest to you? Is it necessary to take into account their vacation time, their pregnancy, or their physical limitations?

Favourite Flower

In what months do you find your prefered flower? Setting your wedding for a time when this stunning flower is in season will greatly improve your chances of having it in your bouquet and centrepieces.

Supplier Availability

Enjoyed the services of your ideal venue or provider? Make sure you get booked by keeping your date open.

Work Commitments

When will you be able to take off work since you have accrued enough vacation time?

Piggy Bank

When do you expect to have enough money to undertake what it is you want to do?

Done Deal

At certain times of the year, you can take advantage of discounted rates.

Lucky Number

Is there anything of particular importance to either of you that you'd like to highlight? You might also calculate your wedding date by adding, subtracting, or dividing your fortunate numbers.

Public Holiday

Most visitors will either be free on that day anyway or will welcome the chance to rest after a busy weekend.

Breathing Room

Do you hope to have a longer period of time to commemorate milestones like anniversaries, birthdays, and holidays?

Most Anticipated Season

When you think of winter, do you picture roaring flames and cosy nooks, or is spring more your speed? Why not add your wedding to an already memorable season if that is when you have the strongest emotional connection?

It's okay if practical concerns trump romantic ones when picking the wedding's date; the day you tie the knot will have special meaning regardless of how you celebrated it.

Tips From the Stars for Picking the Perfect Wedding Date

Do you want some cosmic assistance in choosing your wedding date?

Lucky Times to Tie the Knot, According to Astrology:

The Onset of a Brand-New Moon

New moons are ideal for weddings because they symbolise new beginnings, fresh starts, and building something strong from the ground up. A monthly occurrence means you may plan ahead.

A New Moon in Libra

Relationships, friendships, and social gatherings are all themes associated with the libra sign. Since September and October are peak wedding months, it's perhaps not a coincidence that Libra season falls during those times.

A New Moon in Capricorn Time

Capricorn is a winter sign, but it is a sign of longevity, endurance, and determination.

An Eclipse of the Sun

Solar eclipses, which only happen twice or three times a year, are also seen as omens of good fortune. These brand new moons are like nothing you've ever seen before.

During the Jupiter Transit

Jupiter is known as the "planet of plenty." It is well-known for its beneficence and the happiness, success, and satisfaction it provides to its recipients' lives.

Saturn Transit

Saturn represents the areas in which we often achieve mastery over time, and is hence associated with hard effort and discipline.

It's a perfect time to be married if you're hoping to increase your chances of living a long and happy life together.

Saturn's influence might be seen as the final nail in the coffin of a relationship. If Saturn is in the picture, your marriage will last a lifetime.

Bad Astrological Times to Get Married:

Venus Retrograde

For Venus, it's all about the language of love and the art of making connections.

We tend to misunderstand our significant other when this planet is in retrograde, so this is a good opportunity for reflection and correction.

Fortunately, Venus only goes into retrograde once every 18 months, and for only six weeks at a time.

Moon in a No-Travel Orbit

You shouldn't start anything while the moon isn't tethering to another planet.

Having Wedding Day When Mercury Is in Retrograde

Mercury goes into retrograde three to four times a year, and its effects can be felt in many areas of life, including travel, communication, technology, the state of the world around us, and more.

When Earth is in retrograde, we experience a variety of little inconveniences and frustrations, such as malfunctioning electronics, miscommunication, misplacing our keys, getting stuck in traffic, and so on.

Some astrologers may warn against signing contracts or making significant life choices now, but here's a more practical approach: However, you must continue to act as though nothing has changed. Although there may be a few bumps in the road, it will not derail the wedding. In addition, if you are aware of this information beforehand, you can make the appropriate adjustments instead of concluding that the world has ended.

Conclusion

If you want to be married as soon as possible, when should you do it? The average couple needs at least a year to plan their wedding. Check that your parents, closest friends, and anyone else who matters to you can make it to the event. Make sure there are no date conflicts by contacting the VIPs. Time your wedding with a major event, such a marathon, concert, festival, or even a football game.

Know the local climate in order to prepare for storm seasons. Avoid travelling during peak seasons like spring break to save money on things like hotel rooms and plane tickets. It's likely that the day you wish to get married isn't available. There are several factors, like style, location, and even mood, that the weather can have an impact on on your wedding day. The amount of money you have available may have a significant impact on the wedding date you choose.

Most people find that getting married in March, April, or November saves them money. Dates throughout the summer and early fall will be especially desirable in 2021 and 2022 as couples postpone their weddings because of the coronavirus epidemic. Some holidays fall on three-day weekends, making it easier to host visitors from afar. The Jewish faith holds that Tuesday is the most blessed day for weddings. On January 1st, pick a day that will mark the start of your fifth, tenth, fifteenth, etc. year together.

In Chinese tradition, anniversaries that conclude in the numbers eight or nine are seen as particularly auspicious. Going on your honeymoon right after saying "Bon Voyage" is highly recommended. Advice from the heavens about when to get married. New moons and solar eclipses are auspicious signs of progress. The Moon in Scorpio represents steadfastness, perseverance, and maturity.