How to Choose Your Wedding Style

The term "Wedding Style" may leave you scratching your head. In the simplest words, it's the vision you and your fiancé have for your big day.

Everything that can be seen, as well as the overall mood of the occasion.

By settling on a certain theme for the wedding, you can ensure that the decor, flowers, lighting, and even the feel of your dress and table linens all work together.

The most exciting element of settling on a wedding theme? It aids in narrowing in on what's most important, helping you ignore the rest of the wedding-inspiration chatter.

Finding the right finishing touches is much easier after you've settled on a general style.

It'll also be useful for coordinating with the various service providers involved in the wedding. There are a lot of options, but it's nice to know that when you say something like "rustic chic" or "classic elegance," they'll know exactly what you mean.

Evidently, picking a wedding theme is crucial. How, though, do you accomplish this feat?

An Advice Guide to Choosing the Right Wedding Theme

Style is elusive in its definition yet easy to discern in its practitioners. Which brings us to the question: what do you want guests will take away from your wedding in terms of the aesthetic?

If only we could all agree on a single aesthetic—whether that be that of a boot-loving country lady, a Louboutin-clad tycoon, a charming romantic, or a woman of perfect elegance—life would be much simpler.

On the other hand, most of us have our prefered genres and eras.

Nonetheless, this may cause you to resemble a cross between a Renoir and a Picasso wedding portrait!

That's why it's crucial that you pick the right theme for your wedding.

What makes you, you, and where do you even begin to find that style? You have no doubt been gathering wedding photos for ideas.

Take a look at the images that struck a chord with you and try to figure out what they have in common. Is this a dress out of a fairy tale? An extravagant location for a wedding?

You can use this information to prioritise your goals. Further, it will get rid of any unimportant details.

Finally, you should enquire within. "In a single sentence, how would you characterise my wedding?" You're wedding day dreams will be shattered.

Maybe the solution will occur to you right away. "The beach is the only place I've ever imagined getting married." There's also a chance it'll take a few days.

But it will aid you in narrowing down your wedding style, making decisions about the event's food and décor, and selecting the perfect outfit.

Your wedding's aesthetic will start to take shape once you've addressed that question.

Let's take a look at the many wedding themes out there and figure out how to make them all work together harmoniously.

Traditional Ceremony

You are, deep down, a style icon. Because of this, it is only natural that you want your wedding aesthetic to mirror this.

Traditional wedding receptions are typically held in elegant venues such as hotels, country clubs, or rented mansions with formal gardens. A museum is the quintessential touch of classic modernism.

You probably won't be treated to a buffet. You would much rather have a leisurely meal or brunch with friends.

We'll put a lot of effort into decorating your cake. But you're horrified at the thought of having a food truck at your wedding.

Traditional weddings aren't anything to write home about. The colours should be mostly muted with maybe a pop here and there.

You don't give a damn that orange is currently trending. The memories of your wedding day will last forever. But alas, you just aren't the bride who would go for a more unconventional style.

Much of the wedding's aesthetic will depend on your budget, although you wouldn't mind splurging a little on things like exquisite china and formal table linens.

Lace and satin, both time-honored fabrics, will be used to embellish your gown.

Pearls are the only authentic jewellery you need. In terms of bridal bouquets, roses seem to be the most popular option. Calla lilies are an excellent substitute for roses if they're unavailable.

You choose to go natural for your wedding day makeup.

It's possible to host a successful wedding at a

• Garden
• Golf/Country Club
• Ballroom/Banquet Hall/Events Center
• Places of Interest:
• Hotels,
• Museums, and
• Exclusive Clubs in
• Historic or Landmark Structures
• Yacht Club and
• Private Winery in the Vineyard

Contemporary Modern Wedding

You hate it when you have to comply with rules that make no sense.

No, you're not "out there," yet nobody else is quite like you. You value modern takes on age-old customs.

You have the option of having a religious ceremony at a church, but you can also have a civil ceremony with the officiant and vows of your choosing.

Your wedding location will be unique and beautiful. Natural habitats include a museum, a yacht, or a botanical garden.

You decided against serving steak, chicken, or fish at your wedding reception.

Instead, you can expect a variety of vegetarian and gluten-free food options at several stations set up around the reception.

You choose a dessert bar than a typical tiered wedding cake.

You are probably going to accept some softer hues but insist on brighter ones or ones with metallic accents.

In addition to white, other acceptable colours for a wedding dress are soft pink and ecru.

You always manage to shock me. Your wedding accessories and centrepieces will be the focal point, rather than your dress.

Your bridal bouquet and table centrepieces at the reception will be made out of vibrant, cascading orchids in a rainbow of colours.

The following are some examples of possible wedding halls:

• Museum of Art
• Cultural hub/municipal complex/
• brewery/distillery
• Architectural Icon or
• Landmark
• Industrial-themed hotel
• /warehouse/
• museum
• Nightclub
• Terrace, Deck, or Patio
• Unlike Any Other Rooftop or
• Penthouse Restaurant
• An Aquatic Zoo/Aquatic Vinery

Bohemian Wedding

Among your family of doctors, lawyers, and accountants, you are the only artist. You're wearing blue jeans in a sea of tailored suits.

You thrive in nature because you are a romantic at heart. Furthermore, that location makes the most sense for your wedding's reception. You can't be confined by barriers.

You're so much of a rebel that you wouldn't even think about wearing a classic, figure-hugging wedding dress. Your dress complements your free-spirited personality perfectly.

The colours will be influenced by nature's palette. If you're getting married, you can let your hair down in soft waves or braid it, and then top it off with a floral or greenery crown.

Decorate the reception venue's ceiling with dream catchers or flowers. You'll be relying on your natural environment to set the mood whether you're at a beach, garden, or park.

Event of Vintage Charm

Can you relate to the feeling that you were transported to the incorrect era? To what extent do you want for a kinder, more romantic era?

If so, you might want to consider a wedding with a retro flair. The location and level of formality are entirely up to you. The little things from days gone by are what really matter.

For this time period, antique shops will be your go-to because of their emphasis on historical accuracy. Delicate lace is perfect for the bride's dress. The bridesmaids are encouraged to don colourful flapper costumes and tote brightly patterned parasols.

Dressing up like Jay Gatsby is encouraged, so have the groom don a tuxedo and pocket watch. The uniqueness of any room can be enhanced by the addition of vintage touches. Tins of tea or cookies, stacks of old magazines, a Victrola, etc. You can find amazing deals in secondhand stores. Display any photographs you have of your grandparents, especially those from their weddings.

A barbershop quartet is the perfect addition to a wedding that features jazz from the 1920s. Obviously, music from the Big Band Era will be playing, and you should get ready to dance. So hold a dance contest, and reward the winning couple with a night out dancing the Charleston or Jitterbug.

Ceremony in a Natural Setting

Fall is the most beautiful time of year for a rustic wedding, when the leaves are changing colours and creating a picturesque backdrop. Rustic weddings can be as formal or informal as the couple wishes.

Use a rustic barn ceiling as inspiration and decorate with mason jars and string lights. The bride's dress need not be elaborate or ruffled in any way. Wearing your shirt off your shoulder is a chic choice. At a country wedding, boots are a must-have accessory.

A giant blackboard with your menu printed on it. Stuffed chicken, mac & cheese, and grilled steaks are perfect for a country wedding. Homemade apple or cherry pies might fit in better with the rustic vibe than a sophisticated wedding cake.

Whether you're a city slicker or a country bumpkin, your wedding day will be the most special of your entire life. It ought to be an accurate portrayal of you and your preferences. You want to be able to look at pictures from your wedding fifty years from now and feel the same joy you did then.

Here are a few suggestions for wedding locations:

• Building
• Park
• Ranch
• Farm
• Retreat
• River Ski
• Resort Winery Vineyard
• Inn Garden
• Lake Mountain Nonprofit

Unions of Culture

Wedlocks with a cultural focus honour the bride and groom's unique cultural identities and rituals.

Multicultural weddings are a beautiful example of how love can unite people from all walks of life and cultures.

Whether you want to have a tea ceremony, a mehndi celebration, or a ketubah signing, include these cultural traditions is a lovely way to bring families together and demonstrate tolerance of one another's traditions.

This is the kind of love that lasts a lifetime.

And if the significance of an unfamiliar ritual moves you, by all means include it in your big day, no matter where it comes from.

Venues that function wonderfully for weddings include:

• Conference Hall
• Ballroom
• Chapel/Chapel/Temple/Church/Temple
• Community Center
• Civic Building
• Garden
• Country Club
• Golf Course
• Architectural Icon
• Landmark
• Spa Resort Casino Country Club Vineyard Hotel

Glam Wedding Style

Everything that shines is glamorous. Sequins, metallics, rhinestones, and crystal chandeliers are all fair game here.

You should have a gorgeous wedding if you think there is no such thing as too much glitz.

Weddings in the glam style are often described as extravagant, opulent, or luxurious.

A riot of opulent elements, including as flowers, linens, and bridesmaid gowns, will look right at home.

Sites that are formal enough to support the dazzling decor include mansions in the style of The Great Gatsby or exclusive country clubs. In need of Melbourne's top photographers? We have hand-picked a small group of Melbourne's most talented photographers to be on our shortlist of vendors for your wedding.

Champagne towers, hanging floral arrangements, and sequin table linens are just a few of the jaw-dropping wedding themes that look amazing at glitzy weddings.

Take a look at these different kinds of wedding halls:

• Function Room
• Ballroom
• Event Space Golf/Country Club
• Monumental
• Mansion Hotel
• Cultural Center
• Exclusive Private Club
• Penthouse or on the Rooftop
• Estate Winery
• Yacht Club Private Vessel Vineyard

Specialty Weddings

While "wedding style" refers to the general aesthetic of your big day, "theme" weddings are far more tailored to the couple's interests.

A wedding with a theme is one in which the subject matter is central, and where the details are taken rather literally.

A wedding's theme can range from a traditional black-and-white affair to a Halloween-themed costume celebration for the bridal party.

How about those nuptials from the Wizarding World of Harry Potter? True, the Harry Potter aesthetic is not one for the aisle. Indeed, this is a recurring idea.

Wedding themes are a fun and unique way to express yourself and your partner's shared passions. Is your fiancé a fellow fan of the Star Wars franchise?

Make your entrance to the reception through a lightsaber arch. You're a diehard Green Bay Packers fan, right? Have a wedding with green and yellow as the primary colours, and don't forget the cheeseheads for the reception.

Weddings with a certain theme aren't necessarily the most sophisticated celebrations, but they are always entertaining.

Here are a few potential locations:

• Ale House
•  Spirits Still at the Art Gallery
• Barn
• Architectural Icon
• Landmark
• Motel / Hotel
• Contemporary Industrial Mansion,
• Loft, or Warehouse
• Mountain\sMuseum
• Nightclub
• Ski Lodge
• Ranch Farm
• Spa Ship Resort Unparalleled Location
• Aquarium / Zoo

How to Throw a Unique Wedding

In the next months, you'll have to make a lot of decisions; here's how to stay focused on the big picture.

We promise that if you choose on a general theme and stick to it throughout the planning process, you will have a much simpler time creating a wedding that is both cohesive and uniquely you.

Consider the big picture and the tone you hope to establish for your wedding day before you start trying on clothes, reserving a band, and tasting cakes.

Aim High

Don't stress about how something will operate or how much it will cost at this stage; instead, just let your imagination run wild. Don't worry about what your folks will say either.

Imagine the wedding of your dreams. Please describe what you observe. While you're trying to put the pieces together in your thoughts, here are some questions to ask yourself.

• Big (everyone you're acquainted with) or small (very few people)?
• Where will it take place, outside or inside?
• Where would you like to have your wedding: either in one of your hometowns or where you currently live?
• What's your style: ultra-contemporary, traditional, nostalgic, country chic, or glitzy-glam?
• Stylish or laid-back, or maybe a happy medium?
• Which season is your favourite?

Collect and Store Ideas

Spend some time looking at genuine wedding images, as well as periodicals geared towards brides, books about wedding planning, and blogs written by real couples, to get a sense of what you like and don't like.

However, don't restrict your search to the most obvious places to look. An unexpected source of inspiration may be something as simple as a gorgeous wallpaper pattern or perfume bottle.

Materials like fabric scraps, colour samples, office supplies, and novelty items can also serve as inspiration. Our professionally created, completely free wedding website themes span the gamut from rustic to glam, and everything in between, so you're sure to find something that suits your vision.

One of the greatest methods to keep everything organised is to create an inspiration board and pin up all of your ideas on it.

You'll be able to spot patterns and get a sense of how things will come together thanks to this.

Determine the Proper Procedure

Do you like a formal setting, or something more relaxed? Is a formal sit-down dinner something you'd like to host? Is the event going to be formal, with assigned seats and stations, or will it have a more relaxed vibe?

Your wedding's vision may also be influenced by its location; a beach ceremony will likely have a more casual tone, while a formal ballroom may call for a more formal affair.

And don't forget to incorporate your individual tastes and the ambience that the two of you find most romantic.

Do you like holding low-key poolside picnics, extravagant all-night dance parties, or small dinner parties for close friends and family?

Your wedding, from the invitations to the favours, should reflect the level of formality you've selected.

Focus on a Single Design Element

If you have a tighter theme, it will be easier to choose details and communicate your thoughts to professionals.

You shouldn't just settle for "glam," but rather narrow it down to a certain style, such as art deco or classic Hollywood.

Anything from a specific time period, hobby, or location to your family history or cultural background might serve as inspiration for your theme.

One way to establish a theme is to discuss enjoyable interests shared by you and your significant other. It could be that you both enjoy the game of golf or have a deep passion for the fine arts.

Or maybe there's a special spot, like the peak where you two got engaged or the tropical getaway where you realised your love for one another.

Caution: don't stuff your brain with too many concepts.

It's fantastic if you love Broadway musicals and your spouse-to-be is into drag racing, but trying to mix both on your wedding day would certainly lead to a disconnected affair.

Your best bet is to settle on a single idea and stick to it.

It's Your Choice of Colors

From the wedding website to the bridesmaid outfits, colour will serve as a unifying theme.

Look at a colour wheel and see which hues you find most appealing.

Using a single dominant colour and an accent colour, or two complementary colours for striking contrast, is the simplest method to ensure that all of the aspects of your wedding will complement one another.

Two colours is a good starting point, but don't be afraid to branch out and put in some neutrals or metallics for added depth.

You might also use an analogous colour scheme, in which you use three colours that are adjacent on the colour wheel (such as blue, periwinkle, and violet) to emphasise the variations of a single colour family.

Acquire a Command of the Theme

Your wedding's last touches, from the invitation to the cake, can be tied together with the help of a motif.

Symbolic of one's personal taste, it can take the form of a pattern, a shape, or an insignia (think: monogram, family crest, toile pattern or leaf icon).

You want to make sure that anything you pick fits the tone you want to set.

Try to limit yourself to no more than three or four occurrences of your pattern. More than that, and it will start to feel forced or look too matchy-matchy.

Feel the Energy.

Keep in mind that the wedding's topic not only determines the aesthetic, but also the ambience, of the big day.

While a wedding in a gilded ballroom evocative of the Roaring Twenties will up the stylishness level, a clambake on the seashore will have guests throwing off their shoes and drinking beer straight from the bottle.

No of how you feel about it, either option is fine. You're too hectic to devote much time to the wedding. Our selection of Melbourne-based wedding planners is here to assist you avoid the hassle of organising everything yourself.

Your wedding will stand out and seem more meaningful if you allow your personalities and interests to take centre stage.